If Mama Ain’t Happy…

Wow! Of all the crazy things that happened during the pandemic, I never ever thought that launching a podcast would be one of them, yet here we are. 

I think this is the quickest turnaround on any project or idea I’ve ever had because I really felt like there was a sense of urgency here to get my message out there to moms. 

We’re in really strange times right now, and mindset is more important than ever! 

I don’t want you to just “make it through your days” I want you to enjoy your days. II want you to enjoy the time you have with your kids instead of wishing it away because motherhood is so stinkin hard for you right now. 

Over the last 3.5 years, I have been on a huge personal growth journey. I have learned so much about mindset, how it affects our everyday life, how it affects me as a wife, as a mom as a friend. How mindset affects how I show up for my family and other people, and it is such a powerful tool that we simply do not tap into nearly enough. 

I want to help teach you some practical tips and tools that I have found to be really really helpful in my motherhood. It’s helped me to start having more good days than bad, it’s helped me to start enjoying life more, and instead of just surviving through the days I am thriving and I want that for every single one of you. 

When you can start to master your mindset and truly grab a hold of the power that you have when it comes to your thoughts and your words it will radically change your life. And not only that it will change your kid’s lives, but it will also change your marriage, it will change your friend’s lives, it will change the dynamic in all of your relationships. 

I want to help you tap into the place where you can find true joy no matter what’s going on around you. 

We have the ability to literally rewire our brains so I want to help you guys be able to do that. I am never going to sit here and say that this is easy and I’m never going to pretend that my life is perfect. 

In fact, I would say over the last 3 years our life has gotten crazier, we have added a 3rd baby, and for those of you who have 3 children I think you can agree with me that the 3rd one kinda sends you over the edge a little. We’ve also moved twice, to two different states, we’ve grown our wellness business to almost ½ a million dollars in revenue and we homeschool our kids. So as you can see we have a lot on our plate, but I’m not living in a constant state of overwhelm and stress. And it’s not because things have become less chaotic or anything like that but our life has changed and improved because my mindset has changed.  I have learned how to manage those crazy things better and therefore I am enjoying my life more 

The beautiful thing about this journey towards a better version of me that I have been on is that my kids noticed a difference in me and my kids have changed. 

If I can do anything for you moms out there through this podcast is to empower you to show up as the best you as the best mom you can be so that you can set the example for your kids about what it means to live a positive life, about what it means to have a positive mindset, because, our kids are watching and they are listening to everything we say verbally and non verbally. I am teaching them the things that I am learning. 

And so many times moms we feel guilty, and think it’s selfish to spend any amount of time on us, but you know what you’re doing, when you are improving your mindset, and your health and your wellbeing, You’re also are improving and upleveling your entire family. You are changing the way that you can show up for your kids, you are changing the way that you can show up for your family and they are going to be so so grateful that you decided to do that. 

I want to help you guys learn how to get into that good headspace so that you can show up as the best version of yourself and live life to the fullest.

Now listen do frustrating things still happen in my life?, yes daily. My kids are human, sometimes they wake up in a bad mood, sometimes I wake up in a bad mood. Sometimes our plans dont work out. I have a baby who is very very clingy and only wants mommy, so I get it. I really really do. But the difference now is when frustrating things happen, when the whining starts, when something does not go according to plan, I don’t allow it to steal my joy for the whole day,

Moms we have been given such a beautiful gift. We get to help mold these precious precious children, we have such an amazing opportunity because so many times we are really overwhelmed we don’t get to actually enjoy the opportunity that we have. We miss those moments with our kids, we are so stressed out, we aren’t truly living, we aren’t enjoying our time with them, that’s not how I want to spend my motherhood and that’s not how I want you to spend yours either. 

You know the phrase if mama ain’t happy, nobody’s happy. Well, there’s some truth to that. Moms we set the tone for our family. So if we are stressed out to the max all the time. And we’re frustrated all the time and we aren’t living very joyful lives, our kids pick up on that energy. And honestly, it just makes the days even harder. 

So get ready to dive in with me when it comes to the mindset for moms. Let’s go on this journey together, let’s link arms and reclaim joy in our motherhood! 

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 I have this message for moms and I feel like it couldn’t be a better time to share. there’s a real need here for moms to have help with their mindset. 

There’s a lot of you who have started homeschooling your kids and you never ever thought you would, or maybe you’re doing virtual school or a hybrid, and it’s just crazy. There’s just a lot of strange things happening right now and in order to make it through your day, you’re going to need a good headspace. And not just make it through your day bc that’s not the goal here.

They are listening to the things we say about ourselves, to the things we say about them, and the words that my kids choose to say so often could bring me to tears because it’s so dang positive. And it’s not like my kids woke up one day and had a really positive mindset and started speaking truth over themselves. No no no its something we have worked on with them because